On Facebook, as you do, and I’ve come across one of my all time best high school friends. We haven’t spoken in years and we stopped speaking in the middle of a huge mess in both our lives.

But what to say?

And do I want to know where her life has ended up?

Will I destroy all of these great memories that I have of her by learning what she’s become?

But then, what if she has grown into someone as good as or better than the friend i used to know?

Am I strong enough to take that risk or would I rather hoard my memories and enjoy them as they are?